I Will Fight For The Big Rocks

I Will Fight For The Big Rocks

When it comes to the racial divide, we must commit to fighting for the big rocks. To enter in, I’m trying to read and listen to all sorts of voices. Listening with a desire to understand could be one of the first steps toward coming together. I wonder if talking...
I Will Not Be Controlled By My Circumstances

I Will Not Be Controlled By My Circumstances

I keep hearing the phrase, “Nothing will change until the comfortable people decide to get uncomfortable.” We may think our circumstances don’t control us, but are we controlled by our comfort?   We have an opportunity to consider patterns in America...
I Will Not Get Offended

I Will Not Get Offended

The conversation about the racial divide in America isn’t about any individual, it’s about our collective society. When we get offended, we turn the discussion into an accusation and make the conversation about ourselves. If we want to be able to see...
I Will Not Be Petty

I Will Not Be Petty

If we long for our nation to be racially united, we will have to commit to letting go of what is petty.   We will need to choose not to be consumed or taken off track by things that are not the main thing, or we will never be able to get to the heart of the issues. ...
I Will Make Generous Assumptions Of Others

I Will Make Generous Assumptions Of Others

As we approach the conversation on the racial divide and we want to hear clearly, we must begin with generous assumptions. Making generous assumptions means we enter the conversation with an empty notepad. It means not creating a narrative based on a storyline that we...